Thought Catalog

Samantha Garguilo

A writer, a lover and most of all a learner. Pizza, romance novels, and corny jokes. Talk to me, I'll write about you.

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I stopped worrying about who to be or who will love me or why things happen. I started to just let things be, let things happen, or not.

Now, I go out and I am so ME, I don’t know who I ever was trying to be before. I’m not the girl at the party that is going to sit quietly and keep you company in a corner. I am going to dance, with or without you. I’m not the perfect, none of us are.

In relationships, it’s normal after time to not always feel sparks or get butterflies…but don’t stop trying.  Just because you’ve been dating for X amount of years, doesn’t mean it’s not constantly something to work on.