It’s not your fault that they’re looking for something casual and something temporary when you’re looking for something real and maybe forever.
You’ll get over them when you understand the importance of being valued, respected, listened to, cared for and loved. When you understand that love is more than just drunk texts and likes and flirty comments.
But the truth is, some people make the timing right, they make the distance closer, they make the journey safer. They make the hard times easier and they make themselves ready.
I’m not the girl people always leave. I’m not the girl who can’t keep a man. I’m not the girl who doesn’t know how to love. I’m not the girl who only wants what she can’t have.
The reason why it hurts so much is because it brings your insecurities and your fears back to life. It forces you to take a closer look and examine every flaw and every imperfection.
Heartbreak makes you feel entitled to act like an asshole because you’ve been hurt and people should unequivocally understand that.
I’m slowly learning to let things end because some things are not meant to last forever. Some things only last for a little while. Some people are just here to teach us a lesson and then leave.
Maybe we’re lost because we’re searching for answers from those who have the same questions. Maybe we’re lost because we’ve been trying to seek guidance from those who are going off course.
Maybe then we’ll understand what kind of love we really deserve and we’ll learn not to settle for those who can’t love us or those who treat us poorly.
Gemini. You end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.