You are a square peg. He is a round hole. Why are you trying to make your lives fit when they are different shapes?
I think about how laptops have a mechanism that locks the hard drive when it begins to fall. That’s me. I’m falling.
As people, we hide lots of things. As Hemlock Grove glaringly points out, we can be savage wolves in human clothing or, like the first victim, we can exist as budding intellectuals with Barbie doll exteriors.
First, you have to release the shame about casual sex. “Just sex” is an awesome thing.