I firmly believe that there is someone (likely more than one) for everyone. However, the idea that you need to “be yourself” and they will magically pop out of the woodwork when you aren’t actively TRYING (in all senses of the word) is a really slippery slope.
Porn ruins our erections with actual women.
She needs you to take things slow. For her to truly know how she feels about you, she cannot be rushed. She knows lust, but love she is a stranger to, so give her time.
“The perfect woman likes to come over, have sex, and leave.”
Real men and women share their strategies for resisting extramarital temptation in spite of how daunting a lifetime of monogamy might seem.