Compromise is give and take, but ‘giving in’ is just give. When you prioritize your significant other you’re doing things for their benefit and not your own, but what conventional relationship advice does not prepare you for, is when you want to prioritize yourself.
You aren’t desperate for proof that they love you, you aren’t threatened by them so much as speaking to another attractive human being, you don’t necessarily need them to promise you forever and ever. You know you’re in it together right now.
ENTJ – Claims to be over it immediately but is later found yelling nonsensically at a chair.
‘Everybody is looking for the right person, and nobody is trying to be the right person.’
They were your ride-or-die. And now they’re not. The North Star that gave you the confidence to move fearlessly forward has blinked out, and you’re lost and unsure if you even want to continue in the same direction as before.