Lauren Jarvis-Gibson

If you ever get the chance to find a soulmate out there somewhere, treasure it. Treasure them. Love them and let them love you back. But don’t let yourself grow bitter if it ends. Don’t let yourself give up on bigger loves or better loves.

Being lost, is in fact, a privilege. Being lost gives you endless opportunities to find what you are looking for. Being lost gives you endless sights to see and endless jobs to take. And being lost gives you the ultimate freedom to discover yourself.

If you feel like this someone isn’t right for you, you can’t stay out of guilt. You can’t stay for their sake. No matter how much it hurts you, you need to do the right thing for yourself, even if it breaks another person’s heart.

When I say ‘I love you’, it means that I trust you with my whole soul. It means that you being happy, makes me happy. And it means that I would never ever want to do anything to hurt you. So, when I say, ‘I love you’, please do not take it lightly.

You deserve a man who you see a future with, and who sees you walking down the aisle towards him. You deserve a forever man. A man who won’t ever leave no matter how hard the wind blows and no matter how big the storm can get.

Trust me when I say, you do not need a boy to make your smile grow bigger. You do not a boy to make your heart happier. You do not a boy in December when the cold comes in. And you don’t need a boy to heal your broken parts. You just need you.

The truth is, I’m not really happy for you. I’m not over the moon you fell in love with a girl and see a future with her now. I’m not happy. Even though that’s what I told you.

The loss is just too heavy. Because in losing your significant other and in losing your partner, you also lost your best friend. And that kind of loss is just too painful for one human being to endure.