(March 21st to April 19th)
You have no idea how to approach confrontation in a constructive way. You’re stubborn, which means you rarely (if ever) back down and this can create serious strains in your relationships. You need to learn how to chill out a little bit AND how to admit when you’re wrong. You need to practicing on counting to 10 or something before unleashing that explosive anger.
(April 20th to May 21st)
Getting you to open up is like going on an archeological dig. You have things buried soooooo deep. It’s absolutely a defense mechanism, but it’s difficult for people to feel like they can develop any sort of emotional connection to you if you refuse to let ANYONE in.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
Not everyone knows this about you, but you actually struggle with massive anxiety. Some of your so-called “negative personality traits” are actually side effects from untreated anxiety issues. Your inability to make decisions (and total stress at the thought of having to make them) is usually tied into your anxiety. Learning how to combat your anxiety (whether that’s medication, talk therapy, fitness routines, breathing, etc) is going to be huge for you.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
You are VERY emotional – which isn’t always a bad thing. Your wear your heart on your sleeve, and that’s admirable! But your deep sensitivity means you often personalize things you don’t need to personalize.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
If you’re not the leader in every situation, you freak out. You need to learn to let go a bit. You can’t be in charge of everything 24/7. Let others have a chance.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
You are hands down the most judgmental sign. You pick everyone (yourself included) apart and you need to step back. People are going to make mistakes. No one is perfect. Your harsh mindset is going to turn people off if you don’t figure out how to relax a little.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
Despite being considered balanced, you’re secretly lazy as hell and you need to work on motivating yourself. Don’t stay in a rut. Figure out what’s important to you and go after it. And remember, don’t be too proud to ask for help.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
You can be a manipulative mess. You’re very calculated with who you pay attention to and how you do it, something that can produce a lot of hurt feelings. You need to work on how you treat people.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
You go 0-100 and it’s A LOT. You’re super impatient and it’s something you need to tackle. Not everything you want you’re going to get. And things aren’t always going to happen according to your time table.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
You’re kind of boring? Sorry. I’m not sure you even need therapy. You aren’t interesting enough for it. But hey! That’s…good?
(January 21st to February 18th)
You are extremely aloof and someone others often consider a bit of a mystery. That’s not always a bad thing, but it makes it difficult for people to feel like they truly know you.
(February 19th to March 20th)
You probably love therapy, to be honest. You are very in touch with your emotions and the idea of talking about them for an hour is AMAZING. However, you do need to address your flakiness. And maybe mention your total fear of responsibility.