May 31, 2016

Everything You Need To Know About The Virgo In Your Life

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Noah Kalina
Noah Kalina

General Personality

Virgos are known to be very analytical, and careful and orderly. They represent a very uniform and systematic approach to life and problem solving. They are known to ground others, and are highly selective when it comes to human experience.

Virgos are very mature and secretive, and often control exactly what they can reveal and exactly what they must bottle up inside of them. Their minds are not filled with dreams, rather they are brimming with analysis, and observation. Virgos are the kinds of people who will plan ahead and really focus on their goals. Whether it’s saving up for a trip or asking for a promotion, a Virgo will always have a few months of over analyzing and methodology behind their decisions.

Virgos do, however, enjoy spontaneity, and adventure. However, they need a little bit of structure if they are going to enjoy themselves. Virgos make great contributors, are are amazing employees, family members and caregivers.

Virgos tend to take things literally. Therefore, they are extremely loyal creatures. Their sense of humour is all over the place, sometimes being bogged down by how serious they get. Virgos will often make silent demands, thinking that those who understand them will simply pick up on their invisible cues and give them what they need. Modest and even prudish, Virgos love being in control of their lives.

How To Attract Them

To attract a Virgo, you have to flirt with them. Try to make things with them fun and playful, both physically and through conversation. Work to put a smile on a Virgo’s face, and make them laugh. If you do this, while pulling back a little in order to give yourself poise and value, they will become very curious about you.

How To Know If They Like You

A Virgo will challenge you with their negative qualities in order to see if you will stick around. This is a big way to tell if they are fond of you. The very insecure Virgo will need to know that you will love them at their worst, and that you won’t run away when things get tough. If a Virgo respects you and wants to court you, they will often start to pick out your flaws as well, for they love in a way that strives to make those they are with the best version of themselves. If a Virgo is tagging along with your friend group a lot, you can be sure that they want to be around you. Be sure to be quite consistent with a Virgo, for if they misinterpret your feelings, they will turn cold and paranoid.

How They Are In A Relationship

A Virgo needs to feel needed in a relationship. They are very methodical, and will take as long as they need to take in order to make sure that they are entering the right relationship. They bring this same methodical thinking to problem solving, and will always work to make things better in a relationship instead of simply giving up. A Virgo will always be a dedicated spouse, and though predictable, they like to live on the wild side every once in awhile.

Who They Would Be Most Compatible With

A Virgo is very focused on perfection, and they are quite paranoid creatures. They need a partner who will give them the gentle, steady love that they crave and need in order to open up and flourish. A good match for Virgo will ease their worries, and they will appreciate and encourage how much a Virgo cares about them. A great partner for practical Virgo would be Taurus, who also shares a tendency to be introverted, while appreciating harmony and the exact kind of security a Virgo offers.

Their Ideal Date

Virgos love learning new things. Therefore, instead of taking them out for dinner, take them out to a cooking class so they can learn a new skill and do something methodical. They will love mixing things up, and they will be glad that they left the security of their home to fill their mind with new knowledge.

How They Are In The Bedroom

In the bedroom, a Virgo needs to be comfortable in order to blossom. They are very unselfish lovers, and need to make sure that their partner is enjoying themselves before they can truly let loose. Touching a Virgo’s stomach while hooking up with them will drive them wild. Though peculiar, Virgos like to have conversations when they get down and dirty, because it helps for them to feel comfortable and it takes their mind off of their thoughts (which are often racing)

How They Deal With Heartbreak

Virgos are not very trusting when it comes to lasting relationships, so they tend to anticipate broken hearts before they happen. They are analytical and observant, and see things coming before they actually happen. During a heartbreak, they have already come up with a way to heal themselves and to distract their hurt. In a way, a Virgo started to mend from an impending heartbreak long before their heart is actually broken, speeding up the process.

How They Are As Friends

A Virgo is a gentle and kind friend. They tend to be quite shy, so they will not make the first move when meeting new people. They do not like to lead and prefer to follow their friends and go with the flow. Their best friends adore their advice and their problem solving skills. Virgos tend to feel like they aren’t doing enough in friendships, when in reality they give so much to their pals. Therefore, they need to find friends that are just as attentive to their needs, making the Virgo feel accepted and less obligated to prove something. Virgos are usually at the center of life long friendships, for they value and get very close to those they harmonize with.

How To Gain Their Respect

A Virgo respects anyone who is very well put together. They admire those who have something going for themselves, and who have a plan for their lives.

How They Are When They’re Mad

A Virgo cannot express their feelings very easily, so they often bottle up their emotions until they blow up at very small things. They will slam doors and cry, scream and throw temper tantrums. Virgos keep so much inside, and when they do boil over it can be quite awkward for the people they are around, for no one will know what to do about the uncharacteristic outburst.

How They Are When They’re Sad

When sad, a Virgo tends to isolate themselves. They develop compulsions, cleaning and washing their hands obsessively in order to get out of their mind and mask their emotions in work.

Simple Things That Make A Virgo Happy

If you want to make a Virgo the happiest person, make sure you take the time to let them know that you understand them. Nothing makes them feel more appreciated than that.

At Their Best

At their best, a Virgo is skilled in so many areas. They have an eye for beauty that inspires a lot within them, and their protective nature is very nurturing for those who are lucky enough to experience it. A Virgo will always strive to do the best possible job for others, and cares so deeply about being thoughtful and inclusive.

At Their Worst

At times, Virgos can be hard to get to know. They are so scared of being rejected and misunderstood that they close themselves off and hide behind their shy nature. When they open up, however, they can be suffocating and over-protective. In smaller friend groups, Virgos can succumb to gossip.

What They Fear The Most

Virgos hate chaos. They genuinely fear it. They like being on time, and they like order. When things are not efficient and orderly, a Virgo is terrified.

Likely Occupations

Known for their perfectionism, Virgos are very detail oriented employees. They are very good with their memory, and they are great problem solvers and abstract thinkers. They also tend to be very tidy and neat. Service jobs are the best for Virgos, because they go above and beyond and often do really well for themselves if tips are involved. Research, statistics, and other jobs that require meticulous thinking will actually be enjoyable for a Virgo.

Likely Health Concerns

Virgo tends to be the most analytical sign in the Zodiac, and that energy stays within the digestive tract. When a Virgo worries, they can suffer from ulcers and other digestion problems. They must remember to relax, using aids like calming teas and soothing music to relieve stress and slow their minds.

Where To Take Them On Vacation

A Virgo will always choose an educational trip over a trip where they simply just lay down on a beach. They will want to visit a place that is rich in history like Germany or Paris, and they will absolutely adore getting taken around by tour guides while they learn everything they need to know about the cultures they are exploring.

Their Learning Style

Virgos are very organizational, and detail oriented. They make amazing self learners, and can teach themselves just about anything. Online courses are where Virgos thrive.

Their Kind Of Humour

Virgo tends to use complaints to make people laugh. They will poke fun while being witty about the issues they have with the world, entertaining those around them quite easily.

Their Favourite Pastime

Virgos love to clean, and they also really enjoy learning.

What To Say To Motivate Your Virgo

In a world that keeps trying to cut corners, in a world that is quickening and moving at warp speed, you still stick up for detail, for perfection, and that is an amazing trait. You see things no one else sees, you are reliable, your words of advice motivate and inspire people, and you help everyone around you understand themselves a little more because you help to slow everything down. People admire you and appreciate your presence in their lives.

If A Virgo Were…

A Starbucks Drink: Espresso
A Colour: Beige
A Greek God: Attis — God of rebirth
An Addiction: Cleaning Addiction
An Alcoholic Beverage: White Wine
A Drug: Adderall
In A High School Clique: Nerds
A City: Moscow, Russia
A Harry Potter House: Slytherin
An Untranslatable French Word: Savoir-Faire — knowing how to act appropriately in social situations
A Kiss: Soft
A Teen Movie: The Princess Diaries
A Clothing Item: Freshly Ironed Shirt
A Famous Landmark: The Eiffel Tower
A Season: Fall TC mark

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