Aries: March 21st – April 19th

Open your eyes to the red flags that have been dancing in front of your face. Do not turn your back to them because you have your heart set on making things work with this person. Be honest with yourself. You can listen to your heart, but do not ignore your head.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

Do not continue chasing after someone who has already proven they are not worthy of your affection. You should not have to be the one setting plans and sending first texts every single time. In a healthy relationship, there is a better balance.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

Do not wait for them to choose. If they are having trouble deciding between you and someone else, then they are not meant for you. You deserve someone who would do anything to be with you, not someone who is unsure whether they even want to be with you.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

Do not feel pressured to move fast if that makes you uncomfortable. You are allowed to set your own pace. If your person is not okay with that, then you need to find someone else who is patient with you and respecting of your decision.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

If your sacrifices are going unappreciated, stop making them. You might think if you try hard enough, you will get the love you have been giving all along, but that is not the case. If they do not see how valuable you are right now, they never will.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You do not always have to be the good guy. You are allowed to turn someone down when you don’t feel the chemistry. You are allowed to leave a relationship that makes you feel unfulfilled. You are allowed to break hearts.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

If you keep overanalyzing every little thing they say and do, you are either going to see problems where they don’t exist or you are going to see attraction that does not exist. Stop looking deep into your conversations and take them at face value.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

Stop waiting for the other person to make the first move when you are brave enough to do the work on your own. It’s better to know how they feel now and risk rejection than to waste another year of your life wondering whether you are ever going to become a couple.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

Stop freaking yourself out. Maybe this person does like you back. Maybe your relationship will work out. When you jump to conclusions and imagine the worst case scenario, it convinces you to give up on someone who you barely even gave a chance yet.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

Stop lying about being okay because relationship problems are never going to be solved if one person has no idea they exist. You need to be honest. You need to be vulnerable. You need to become more comfortable having uncomfortable conversations with your person.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

It doesn’t matter whether you have anxiety or depression or issues with your self-esteem. You are still deserving of love. If someone makes you feel like you are lucky they keep you around with all your issues, you should walk away from them. You should never date someone who makes you feel difficult to love.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

An almost relationship is not a real relationship. You are not getting everything you need, which is why you need to put an end to the situation. Be the bigger person who chooses to walk away instead of the person who begs for something more and ends up heartbroken.