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May 18, 2017

13 Men Reveal How Long They Are Willing To Wait To Sleep With A Girl

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1. “I expect sex on the first date. To be fair, I only meet girls over Tinder and make it clear in my profile it’s all I’m looking for. So if she doesn’t put out the first time I invite her over, she usually doesn’t get a call back.” — Jesse, 22

2. “There’s no real time limit. I’m not going to dump a girl because we’ve been on three dates and I haven’t seen her boobs yet. I don’t want to pressure anyone. It will happen when the time is right. But, at the same time, if we’ve been seeing each other for six months and we haven’t had sex even once, I’d assume something is wrong. That she wasn’t into me.” — Luke, 26

3. “It definitely depends on the situation. I waited half a year for an ex, but we were long distance so I couldn’t really complain. But then I waited a month for this other girl, which doesn’t sound like long at all, but she was practically living with me. We slept in the same bed every other night and it was torture to not touch her.” — Jason, 27

4. “Three months was the longest a girl had me wait. But we only saw each other like, once per week. It’s not like we were having sleepovers every weekend. It made sense for us to wait that long, because we barely knew each other.” — Chris, 21

5. “I mean, back in high school I dated a girl for three years without sleeping with her. She wouldn’t even let me feel her up over the shirt until we turned seventeen. But I’m in my 30s now, so I don’t think I’d be as patient anymore.” — Allen, 32

6. “Every girl I’ve been in a serious relationship with has slept with me on the first or second date. A lot of people care about chemistry and the way someone acts in the bedroom says a lot about them as a person. If you wait too long to have sex with someone and then it sucks, you wasted months of your life.” — Max, 28

7. “I wouldn’t mind if a girl made me wait an entire year, as long as she’s doing it for a good reason. For her religion. Or because she wants to make sure I’m serious about her. I just don’t want to deal with any games. I don’t want her to make me wait, just because it’s fun and makes her feel in control of me or some shit.” — Troy, 25

8. “I don’t think a girl is a slut if she fucks me on the first date. And I don’t think she’s a prude if she wants to wait to get to know me better first. If I like her enough, I’ll wait for as long as she wants me to.” — Alec, 24

9.  “I could wait maybe six months for sex, as long as she’s still willing to give me blowjobs or at least handjobs. Otherwise, what’s the point in dating? If I’m going to be there for her emotionally, I need her there for me sexually. Sorry.” — Colin, 23

10. “I waited eight months to sleep with my first girlfriend. I feel like it was worth it. I really loved her by then — and call me corny but I think sex is best with people you actually care about.” — Mason, 24

11“My girlfriend slept with me in the middle of our first official date. But we were friends for almost six months before that, so she knew me really well already.” — Joel, 29

12. “I was actually the one who wanted to wait for sex once, because I just got out of a shitty relationship and didn’t want to take advantage of the next girl, and it was horrible. She thought I wasn’t attracted to her. That it was weird I wouldn’t take her clothes off. Worst time of my life.” — Seth, 22

13“Full disclosure: I was a whore until I met my fiancé. My number was in the double digits. But she wants to wait until marriage. I wouldn’t do that for anyone else. I’d never even think about it. But I love her. I’m willing to wait for her. And the wedding is three months from now, so I should be able to make it.” — Jack, 25 TC mark 

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