Why You Haven’t Found Your Forever Person Yet, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

You’re not ready to find love yet, because you haven’t made the most of your single life. There are still places in the world you need to see and strangers you need to sleep with. You aren’t meant to find your forever person until you experience as much as the world as possible, so you’re not filled with regret once it’s time to settle down in one place with one person.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because work has been taking up all of your time. But don’t worry, because you don’t have to choose between your career and love life. You can have it all. You just have to reorganize your time, so you have enough time for work and for play.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because you haven’t learned enough about yourself yet. You have an idea of what you want, but you’re still unsure. That’s why you need to take some “me time” to figure out what makes you tick, what turns you on, and what kind of person you can imagine spending eternity with.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because you’ve been scaring potential suitors off. I know you don’t like hookup culture, but you can’t get obsessed with the idea of finding your future husband. The next time you have a date, relax. Take things one day at a time. You can’t fast-forward through the puppy love phase and skip right to marriage.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because you’re so damn independent. You’re always preaching about how you can survive without a man, but that doesn’t mean you have to keep your heart locked in a cage. Put your guard down. Open yourself up to love. If you keep pushing people away, they’ll keep leaving.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because you’re still thinking about your ex. It’s not necessarily that you have lingering feelings for them. You’re just upset that things didn’t work out and are worried that you’ll get hurt again. But if you want to find your forever person, you have to be open to second love. You have to let the painful memories go.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because you’ve let your shyness get the best of you. You never text first. You never smile at men you find attractive. You never admit how you feel to men you’re lucky enough to sleep with. You let them walk in and out of your life without letting them know how much they mean to you. But if you want to find love, you have to be more honest about your emotions. Make the first move if you have to.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because you’re not sure if they exist. You’re highly skeptical of love, marriage, and everything in between. You’ve successfully convinced yourself that you’re going to be alone forever so that you don’t end up disappointed. But that mindset is actually bringing you down. You have to strive to be more optimistic.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

You haven’t found your forever person, because you’re still not over your fear of commitment. Whenever you get close to someone, you pull yourself away, because you’re worried about what will happen if you let them into your life. But if you want to find love, you can’t run away when things get rough. And you can’t assume your relationship is going to end in failure. You have to have high hopes.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

You haven’t found your forever person, because you can’t stand criticism. The second someone argues with you or expects you to make a reasonable change, you lose interest in them. You want them to like you exactly the way you are, which isn’t a bad thing, but you have to remember that serious relationships require compromises.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because your expectations are sky high. It’s healthy to have standards, but you’re never going to find someone that looks and acts exactly like Ed Sheeran. Try to keep your expectations high, but realistic.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

You haven’t found your forever person yet, because you’re scared of change. The idea of moving in with someone is terrifying. Hell, the idea of going on a date is terrifying. You like things the way they are now. You don’t want to put in the effort it takes to find love. But that’s the thing. You need to put in work if you want to find your forever personThought Catalog Logo Mark

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