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October 5, 2016

If He Does These 17 Shitty Things In Public, He’s Clearly Using You For Sex

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1. He refuses to hold your hand. He doesn’t have a problem touching you in private, but as soon as there are people around, he doesn’t want to look like a couple.

2. You only go out late at night. He never takes you out for brunch. He only takes you out for beer and chicken wings.

3. He texts the entire time you’re together. It makes you wonder why he even agreed to hang out with you. And it makes you wonder if he’s usually out with other girls while he’s texting you.

4. He never takes pictures with you. If he posts a photo of the meal he’s eating with you on social media, he’ll leave your name out of the post. He doesn’t want anyone to know you’re the one he’s with.

5. He flirts with other women in front of you. Or maybe he doesn’t flirt, but he has no problem staring at their asses.

6. If you run into one of his old friends or current coworkers, he won’t introduce you as his girlfriend. If you’re lucky, he’ll introduce you as a “friend.” Otherwise, he won’t introduce you at all.

7. Whenever you see him, it’s only for an hour or two, because you end up leaving the house so late. You never spend the whole day together.

8. When he takes you out for food, it’s never to a nice restaurant where you can have a romantic date. It’s always to Taco Bell or a sports bar.

9. Whenever he takes you to the movies, it’s not the closest theater to his house. He takes you far away from his town, so that there’s a smaller chance he’ll be seen with you.

10. You always hang out one-on-one. It’s nice to have some privacy, but if you haven’t met any of his friends yet, there’s a problem. And that problem is that he only wants to fuck you.

11. He doesn’t even offer to pay for your food. He expects you to pay for your half while he takes care of his half.

12. Somehow, you two find a way to talk about sex the entire time. Even if you spend a few hours together, you never talk about anything real. It’s just meaningless flirting.

13. Whenever you meet up with him, he comments on how sexy your body looks. But he never comments on how hard you can make him laugh or how intelligent you are.

14. He engages in massive PDA. You might think it’s a good thing that he’s willing to make-out with you in front of other people. But remember, he wouldn’t hold your hand. 

15He never calls it a date. He always refers to it as hanging out or chilling.

16. Whenever you see him, you end up having sex. He won’t take you out for a nice meal and then drop you off at your house with a single kiss on your front stoop. He always invites himself in, so you can have a quickie before he leaves.

17. Honestly, you’ve never even been out in public with him. Whenever you two hang out, it’s at someone’s house–or more accurately, inside of someone’s bedroom. TC mark