You’ve Been Touching Him Wrong This Entire Time

You’re not supposed to hop on top of him and bounce while you’re still bone dry, so he can get off. Or suck his dick until your jaw is sore, so he can get off. You’re not supposed to make him cum harder than he’s ever cum before and then fall asleep beside him, even though you didn’t get off.

Sex isn’t something you should be doing for him. It’s something you should be doing together.

So don’t force yourself to moan, because you think he’ll find it hot. Don’t pretend that you love a certain position when it’s killing your back. And please, oh please, don’t fake your orgasms.

If you act like sex is purely for his benefit, then he’ll start to think that it’s the truth. And you’ll never orgasm. You’ll end up viewing sex as a chore. As something he should be thankful you’re giving him. As something he should pay you back for by doing the laundry or the dishes.

But that’s not the way it should be. Women should be just as eager to jump in the sack as men are, but the only way for that to happen is for you to realize what you deserve.

Even though it feels like it takes you forever to finish, you deserve to orgasm. Even though you need your clit touched in addition to simple penetration, you deserve to orgasm. Even though you’re a woman and have been convinced you should be ashamed of your sexuality, you deserve to orgasm. 

Why should your boyfriend be the only one to cum? Because he has a dick that takes two seconds to ejaculate? If you’re in a relationship, then you have enough time to spend on foreplay. If he can’t spend an extra twenty minutes in between your legs, then he shouldn’t be allowed in between your legs in the first place.

So, the next time you have sex, be selfish. Focus on your pleasure and forget about his. Think about how many times he’s orgasmed when you were left feeling unfulfilled, or even left in pain. If you made it through all of those disappointing nights, then he can handle one night of blue balls.

Besides, he’ll find your bossiness sexy. Tell him to watch you masturbate, so he can learn the way you like to be touched. Tell him to use your vibrator against your clit while he thrusts. Tell him he can’t stop licking you until you orgasm. Tell him to try anything and everything until you find something that feels good for you.

If your boyfriend really loves you, he’ll be thrilled when he feels your pussy pulse. Getting you off will help him get off.

After all, sex isn’t something you have to deal with to keep a man around. It’s something you should both be excited to do. So stop trying to act like an actress in a porno and start acting like yourself. When you actually enjoy sex, you’ll notice him enjoying himself more, too.

When you cum, it’ll be a win-win.