Ellen Scheidt

Take things as they come and live in the now as opposed to the anxieties of what could eventually happen with the relationship.

Together, you’re Betty and Veronica, Blair and Serena — a CW casting agent’s dream duo!

The only way to escape the constant nagging of “agenda anxiety” is to have a glass of wine, or two, or three.

The thing is, the more you prolong the break up, the more bitter you will both become, and the more the inevitable split is going to hurt.

They don’t understand the unwritten rules of “wait as long as the other person did to reply” and “don’t seem too eager”.

I often wonder how the man who falls for me will feel about my need to constantly escape.