We’ve been in this rut for so long, it seems, and yet there everyone else goes, their lives flourishing with big-time keywords—like baby and wedding and house and promotion! We are nowhere near those things. The idea of it makes us cringe, in fact. So why are we erasing ourselves to the mainstream when we don’t even believe in it, anyway?
I lost myself once,
For a year
In someone else’s hands.
If they willingly decided to love you wholly, then go ahead: love them. You’re an amazing soul. The right one will see that, needless to say. You don’t need to sell yourself short to everyone you meet.
So…what does an “on-again off-again” relationship actually entail? There are a few important things about this type of relationship that we need to realize in order to be successful in love.
You listen to my crazy. You indulge in my weird comments. You make me laugh until I cry. And there’s no one like you.
The more life you breathe into the things that make you happy, the more you’ll find those kinds of things will head your way.
You can’t love me halfway. You either want all of me or none of it. I’m not a project you get to start and abandon when things get hard or something else seems more intriguing. That’s not how you love someone.
“Baby, you are the strongest flower that ever grew. Remember that when the weather changes.”
Completely ignore them.
Bisexuality, even today, is still somehow frowned up. And I, for the majority of my twenties, was one of the people doing the frowning.