Sometimes the greatest sacrifice you can make in love is letting each other go because you want more for yourselves and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s not selfish – hanging on would be selfish. But allowing each other to chase your dreams – that’s selfless.
But the truth is, it takes strength to admit you’re not okay. It takes a lot of courage to talk about what’s going on inside your head. The problem is admitting you’re not okay can make some people uncomfortable and people disconnect themselves from things that make them uncomfortable, unless they truly care.
I learned that I can love you with my whole heart in a way that I’ve never loved anyone or anything else but that doesn’t mean we are good for each other; it doesn’t mean we’ll end up together.
Don’t be the person who says these phrases anymore, “I would, but…” or “I know I could, but…” But nothing! You are wasting your life. This is all the time you get.
Here’s to the girls who would rather stay wild and wander than settle down. The one’s who have said, “I like you, but I love to travel so as much as I’d like to stay I have to go.” The girls who don’t want a “normal” life and actually refuse to live it.
Sagittarius: You’re unhappy because you’re living a lie. You are trying to be someone you’re not in order to make your family or your friends or someone else (who isn’t you) happy. You convinced yourself to believe this is the life you’re supposed to live, but you know it’s not.
“Why should I think of her any differently? I also slept with her on the first date and if that’s frowned upon for a woman then it should also be frowned upon for a man because it takes two people to hook up.”
I’ve never been one to do things quietly or softly. I’m full on, I’m all in and I don’t care what that looks like as long as we’re happy.
You deserve to be a complete thought, the final destination, the most important person to someone. You don’t deserve to be an after thought, a stop along the road, the person who is there when it’s convenient for him. You deserve the world and someone out there wants to give it to you, but not this guy.
“If the chemistry is there and you’re both feeling each other then why not have sex on the first date? If he pressures you into it then absolutely not, but if it’s a mutual feeling I say go for it.”