Thought Catalog

Andrea Javier

A 20-something who is a self-proclaimed writer but really can't find the right words to say. A professional dreamer ...

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You deserve someone who loves you not because it is convenient or because it is comfortable. Someone who will choose you even at the most inconvenient times and will put you first among other things. And I am not that someone.

I used to be that girl who over thinks a lot. I get stressed over small things, mostly things I don’t have control over. Luckily, after a lot of thinking and rethinking about life, after a million conversations I’ve had in my head and after constant mind setting, I came up with these reminders to help me get through life. For simple and less stressful life, remember the following:

While girls are often regarded by men as hard to understand, girls with big egos are ultimately the hardest to decipher. They say things that mean the other, they never let their guards down and they always, always show that they are better off alone than to be with you.