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Great Songs To Cry To
If there’s a better way to spend my time other than forcefully making myself cry via tearjerking musical marathons, I don’t want to know what it is. (JK – send help.) Everyone should cry once in a while. It’s cathartic and fun, even! Here’s a brief guide to listening to my favorite cry jams, in no particular order. Take a listen if you’re trying to feel feelings or whatever. Disclaimer – some of these songs are covers, which I am well-aware of. I chose what I feel to be the most depressing rendition of said songs.
“Only Living Boy in New York” – Simon and Garfunkel
The lyrics that make you lose it: Hey, I’ve got nothing today to do today but smile When to listen: When feeling terminally lonely
“With or Without You” – U2
The lyrics that make you lose it: My hands are tied/She’s got me with/Nothing to win and/Nothing left to lose When to listen: When you know that thing with that person you love is over
“Without You” – Harry Nilsson
The lyrics that make you lose it: No I can’t forget this evening/Or your face as you were leaving/But I guess that’s just the way the story goes When to listen: When you’re already in the middle of a sobfest and feel like amping up the waterworks
“Hallelujah” – Rufus Wainwright
The lyrics that make you lose it: Maybe I’ve been here before/I know this room, I’ve walked this floor/I used to live alone before I knew you/I’ve seen your flag on the marble arch/love is not a victory march/It’s a cold and it’s a broken hallelujah When to listen: The first time there’s no question that your heart is broken
“All Cried Out” – Allure & 112
The lyrics that make you lose it: Apology not accepted/add me to the broken hearts you’ve collected When to listen: When you’re kind of just joking about being upset but secretly hope that you’ll shed a few tears
“The Reason Why” – Rachel Yamagata
The lyrics that make you lose it: So, steal the show, and do your best/To cover the tracks that I have left/I wish you well and hope you find/Whatever you’re looking for When to listen: When ambition has torn something apart
“The Greatest Love of All” – Whitney Houston
The lyrics that make you lose it: I decided long ago, never to walk in anyone’s shadows/If I fail, if I succeed/At least I live as I believe/No matter what they take from me/They can’t take away my dignity When to listen: LOL. I’m sorry for including this song, but I think it’s great for crying when you’re down on yourself and feel like whatever you’re doing isn’t enough and you just need Momma Whitney to be like, “You can do it, girl!” Uh… maybe that’s just me.
“Year of the Cat” – Al Stewart
The lyrics that make you lose it: But the drum-beat strains of the night remain/In the rhythm of the new-born day/You know sometime you’re bound to leave her/But for now you’re going to stay/In the year of the cat When to listen: When you’ve lost control and think that something beautiful can fix it
“Graceland” – Paul Simon
The lyrics that make you lose it: She comes back to tell me she’s gone/As if I didn’t know that, as if I didn’t know my own bed/As if I’d never noticed the way she brushed her hair from her forehead/She said, “Losing love is like a window in your heart/Everybody sees you’re blown apart/Everybody feels the wind blow.” When to listen: When you realize that heartbreak can be carried around in the daylight
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yessss. good list. I would also add “I Can’t Make You Love Me” by Bonnie Raitt. Damn. that song hurts.
Anonymous
I’d Rather Go Blind–Etta James
lauren
rilo kiley- rest of my life and science vs romance, also, tanita tikaram, valentine heart. i have whole other lists in case its gloomy out, for summer crying, winter crying. i’ve shared this with my significant other, he’s cool with it.
Sex Mahoney
Other than radio they play in supermarkets and elevators, you don’t hear much about Al Stewart anymore, but I saw him play a church with a midget last year.
Sex Mahoney
Other than radio they play in supermarkets and elevators, you don’t hear much about Al Stewart anymore, but I saw him play a church with a midget last year.
Elizabeth
Every time someone covers “Hallelujah” by Leonard Cohen a kitten dies.
It should be a capital crime.
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=24703745 Carleigh Anne Mahaffey
Oh shit, you got me with “Graceland.” My always-cry Paul Simon song is “Adios Hermanos”
Kelcie Moseley
Where’s “Fix You”? That’s been in at least 8573784 sad scenes on television.
Lesbian
Where the fuck is Adele in this list? I feel like she strictly writes her songs to make the listener weep.
I really do almost cry every time I hear that song. And almost everything by Joni Mitchell.
http://other-worldly.org Justine
Dang. So on point with With Or Without You, The Reason Why and Hallelujah. Definitely my top crying songs.
http://www.facebook.com/people/Steven-Fiveoseveniam-Lazaroff/7706828 Steven Fiveoseveniam Lazaroff
i like it. a personal favorite (?) of mine is ‘a stone’ by okkervil river.
lia marie
um again, where is bright eyes. dghjkl
Anonymous
Oh, man, that is so true.
Also, Make You Feel My Love.
http://www.nosexcity.com NoSexCity
post on the internet so the rest of us have weepy-music at the ready for not having boyfriends.
i mean… um…
http://www.nosexcity.com NoSexCity
sooooo good.
Guest
“Someone Like You” could make me cry in a second on the happiest day of my life.
Abby
Fuck Was I, Jenny Owen Youngs. ”Love grows in me like a tumor/parasite bent on devouring it’s host/I’m developing a sense of humor/’til I can laugh at my heart between your teeth/’til I can laugh at my face beneath your feet.”
http://www.facebook.com/jessi.smith1 Jessi Smith
Pretty sure I’ve cried my way through the entirety of Damien Rice’s “9″ album, which probably makes me a cliche, but, eh. You’ll get that.
lauren
hold the phone, i said significant other, meaning, like he’s around and a guy he’s not “ready to be in a relationship” i got plenty to cry about. maybe him seeing my itunes and spotify mixes is what made that happen.
Anonymous
Carolina by M. Ward or Slim Slow Slider by Van Morrison or I Was Young When I Left Home by Bob Dylan
Anonymous
I came here just to add “Fix You.” Holy shit that’s a great crying song.
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=612928768 Samie Rose
I started sobbing just by reading the song titles. ;-;
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=612928768 Samie Rose
Come on, how come Sinead O’Connor’s “Nothing Compares 2 U” is not on the list? I really find it a very sad song. I’d also like to add Jewel’s “You Were Meant For Me”
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=23900040 Michelle Jackson Gamradt
Mona Lisas and Mad Hatters- Elton John, Mexico- Cake, and Breathe Me- Sia, Save Me- Aimee Mann are good cry songs as well. Good list!
Diana Salier
hell yes to sinead. my ex and I used to sing that song as an ironic thing and now it ain’t so funny
Diana Salier
third eye blind – deep inside of you
diana Salier
third eye blind – deep inside of you
beck – lost cause
http://twitter.com/tannnyaya Tanya Salyers
I always cry to Cat Power.
ryan chang
spot on with harry nilsson. i would also like to publicly divulge crying to nazareth’s cover of ‘love hurts’ simultaneously indulged the pleasure of crying while also making me stop crying because of how ridiculous i seemed to myself listening to the cover in the first place
http://allirense.com Alli
Allure! That brings me back to middle school days. What happened to them?
Heyoh
noooo Halleluja by Jeff Buckley. Infinitely better and 1000x more likely to make you cry
Devin
Don’t Think Twice It’s Alright by Bob Dylan and Butterfly by Weezer and Lover You Should Have Come Over by Jeff Buckley and (this is my guilty pleasure, depth of sorrow song) Last Kiss By Taylor Swift. Cry away, peeps.
Arowe1011
Leonard Cohen Leonard Cohen Leonard Cohen
Guest
I love you
http://twitter.com/ihatewheat Robin
YESSSS
http://twitter.com/ihatewheat Robin
Mine is Survivor “The Search is Over”
http://twitter.com/lauren_wilford Lauren Wilford
Admit it. You were totes into the soundtracks for “Garden State” AND “The Lass Kiss.”
http://twitter.com/lauren_wilford Lauren Wilford
Admit it. You were totes into the soundtracks for “Garden State” AND “The Lass Kiss.”
Um
BON IVER’S “MICHICANT” IS THE ONLY ACCEPTABLE SONG TO CRY TO
http://twitter.com/dianasalier diana salier
the entirety of “for emma, forever ago”
http://twitter.com/dianasalier diana salier
YES
http://twitter.com/dianasalier diana salier
PERFECT SONNET
Elizabeth Whalley
Oh, this is so completely fantastic and perfect. Saving this…also, stay out of my head.
Klara
I don’ t care what you call me – David Ford.
I would die for you – Matt Walters.
So let go – The Good Life
You-tube away kids, they’re tear jerkers.
http://twitter.com/melvinismad Melvin Alvarez
everything goes dark and eerie when I hear that song. Not to mention hearing a weeping kitten in the background.
Rachel
Ugh, I have seven separate playlists of crying music (yikes?) but these songs are the best:
A Case of You – Joni Mitchell (also anything off of Blue)
Blake’s View – M. Ward
Don’t Let Me Down – The Beatles
http://www.facebook.com/jessi.smith1 Jessi Smith
Oh, and, also… William Fitzsimmons, anyone? Makes me wish I were capable of growing a really fantastic beard to soak up my tears.
Rhee
Also, The Funeral by Band of Horses
Guestropod
BOTH SIDES NOW
jen
Almost Lover – A Fine Frenzy
Little Hell – City & Colour
And just anything, anything sung by Matt Walters.
When I think of the S.O. term it makes me think they’re around “for serious”. Still think you should share that crybaby playlist or two for the rest of us…
Vicky Shazam
uhm, also any album by The Smiths (mostly The Queen is Dead) makes me wanna die when i’m sad. yeah.
martin
Falling Awake by Gary Jules, best sad song period!
douchegirl
Bearded folk singers FTW!
douchegirl
:(
douchegirl
When I was going through the worst part of my break up I listened to Adele’s “21″ album from the moment I woke up to the moment I went to bed. “Don’t you remember” is the worst one.
“When will I see you again?”
douchegirl
Omg, I feel you so much. I had one of those “significant others”. Completely exhausted all my crying songs.
douchegirl
“The Trapeze Swinger” Iron & Wine.
Cathy
The Brokeback Mountain theme song.
It’ll break your heart in seconds.
Cassmf
My altimate tear fest playlost includes:
to build a home – cinematic orchestra
I have nothing – Noah and the Whale
Don’t be afraid you’re already dead – Akron/family
U2 cover – With or without you – Hamish Cowan And when Im in a sad crying rage – new york, I love you but you’re bringing me down – LCD Soundsystem
They get me everytime.
Bee
for me it’s martha by tom waits, “and I was always so impulsive/ I guess that I still and/ but all that really mattered then/ was that I was a man/ I guess that our being together was never meant to be/ but Martha, Martha/ I love you can’t you see” I guess the best time to listen to this would be after you know you’ve let something go too far and you don’t know how to make things right.
http://www.twitter.com/mexifrida Frida
ditto on almost lover. i used to cry to that when i had it on my ipod.
http://www.twitter.com/mexifrida Frida
For me it’s Wonderful World by James Morrison, Maps by the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Let’s Not Shit Ourselves (To Love and to be Loved) by Bright Eyes, A Line Allows Progress A Circle Does Not by Bright Eyes, Warwick Avenue by Duffy, and When You Were Young by The Killers, for some reason too.
I hate knowing I’m 100% going to cry if I’m alone listening to them, but it seems like it needs to be done sometimes when you just want to release and cry about whatever is happening.
lala
me too. “when you love someone and it goes to to waste… could it be worse?” makes me teary every time.
Mel
Make Up Smeared Eyes by Automatic Loveletter. Almost everything by Automatic Loveletter.
ANONYMOUS
Don’t Confess – Tegan and Sara
Lyrics that make you lose it: And every second I spend waiting drags me closer to this grave/No I’m not alone, I’m just on my own/And I, it’s a little cold outside/And don’t be so hard on yourself, you won’t get better till you get worse/Send a little love my way
When to listen: When you feel all alone in inexplicable misery.
Te.
Racheal Yamagata’s The Reason Why gets me every fucking time.
Claire
Joni Mitchell – Case of You. never fails.
devin
my boyfriend and I just broke up. I went through all of the comments and bought several songs on itunes. tonight’s gonna suck and I’m ready for it.
also, I forgot to mention last week….TRY ME by James Brown is probably the best. Walk Away by Ben Harper. Fuck.
pesto
most Bright Eyes, anything off the Antler’s first album, annnnnd Adele. ugh Adele. she occasionally makes me cry when I’m not even sad
http://twitter.com/wearewere Olivia
Sufjan Stevens – Romulus
(first song I noticed that I would tear up every single time I heard it)
merh
I find Stevie Wonder’s “Lately” song to be heartbreaking/ fueling the waterworks. The lyrics that get me are ” Well, I’m a man of many wishes/Hope my premonition misses/ But what I really feel my eyes won’t let me hide /‘Cause they always start to cry/ ‘Cause this time could mean goodbye”
Went through many nights during a breakup sobbing to this one
Iamsoy
Haha I kept scrolling and scrolling looking for “Fix You” and finally used auto-find. Lightsss will guiddee you hoome… UGH! I just got goose bumps typing that out.
Leo9085861
A really upsetting song I find is ‘Mad World’ by Gary Jules
xx
this years love- david gray
the scientist- coldplay
Rich
I know this was written over six months ago, but…I got dumped today. Will be listening to these on repeat for an indeterminate amount of time.
Rich
oh, and “Simple Together” by Alanis Morissette. Never fails.
In fact, sometimes we are so eager for that thrill of danger, of uncertainty, of desire, that we’ll search for and create problems where there are none. It’s as though our brains can’t comprehend that something can simply work, and that happiness is not just a wisp of smoke we’re meant to perpetually chase and never attain.
Ladies. Please, stop throwing your panties at your computer screens. I don’t mean to be this sexy; it just happens. Even though I’m not a vegetarian, I have a lot of admiration for their kind. To stop eating meat, you are probably either ethical or health-conscious, both of which are appealing traits.
The kiss was not well-executed. Our foreheads were interlocked, attempting to preclude the act. She was rubbing my temples, my shoulders, relaxing the malaise out of my muscles, working to my bone marrow. Why did I let her touch me, was I aroused by illogic? No. I wanted to be transcendent, cerebral. I wanted to be a poem.
Writing like this is what we call an essay — a try, an attempt. This is, of course, the etymology of the word — from the French, essayer, to try. This is not about creating a highly polished, clean, clear monolith. It’s about seeing how thoughts meet language and what kind of order might emerge.
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